March 28th, 2010
Meditation on the Subway?
Meditation on the Subway
I travel a lot and I have time to think when I am sitting, and waiting to get where I am going.
In this world where stress and timelines seem to be in the driver’s seat of our life experiences, it occurs to me that we have to find ways to find centeredness and mindfulness “on the go”.
Stress goes hand in hand with cancer. Why do I say this? What do the studies show? What is it about your biology that leads you from chronic stress to cancer? How can you find release from stress in the midst, in the very center of LIFE?
So…Stress and Cancer…this is what we DO know:
- Stress dampens certain portions of the immune system that are surveillance “police” within your system that find and act to destroy cancerous cells.
- Stress encourages the over-production of Cortisol. Cortisol acts to slow inflammatory responses by the body. When we have a cell that is cancerous we actually NEED inflammation to kill off the rogue cells. Chronically high levels of cortisol prevent the destruction of cancerous cells.
- Stress creates internal tensions that can create truly toxic beliefs about your self, your family and the community at large.
How do we deal with this? Our lives are busy. Our lives are full of expectations and responsibilities.
I have not entirely found a way to get out of my responsibilities, have you?
Since I cannot stop the pace I am going on most days, then I would like to suggest that there are steps one can take to find ways to “de-stress” while you live your life.
Be where you are. Often my stress is due to forward or backwards “projection”. Do you find that you are not “present” right now, where you are? Are you thinking about regrets? Or, are you worried about what will happen tomorrow? When you feel stressed, take ten seconds to mentally “come back to now”. Breathe intentionally –note your breath coming in and out. Become aware of the fact that right now, you are alive, you are breathing, and you are okay. Be present as much as possible today.
Meditate “on the subway” of your life. I spend a lot of time in New York City and I take the F Train from Brooklyn to Manhattan. The trip is around 35 minutes or so. Sometimes I read, but, just as often I actually meditate. Meditate on the subway?? Yes, actually, I find it quite rewarding. I mean, I suppose anyone could meditate in a totally quiet, peaceful yoga studio in the woods next to a gently bubbling creek…right? But what about the rest of your life? What about the people that really don’t have the luxury of going to the yoga studio because they are working two jobs?
Meditation shouldn’t be a class-oriented privilege. Just because your life is not filled with hours that you can relax and “go to meditate” somewhere doesn’t mean that you, too can’t bring meditation into your life in a meaningful way. Here is how I do it:
- No matter what is going on around you, take a 2-minute-“vacation”. I owe this thought to E. Martene Craig, a wonderful musical director and friend. Close your eyes, if you can, breathe in and out several times, really pay attention to the breath coming into your lungs and then how the air goes back out. Direct your thoughts to a place or time when you really were relaxed, or having a wonderful time. Be in that place for a minute, then come back and keep going in your day.
- On “the subway” I use the same techniques you will hear in yoga class. Focus on your breathing, in and out, let your mind be blank — don’t concentrate on anything. When a thought or a sound comes into your mind, notice that you have a thought, then let it go with no judgement on yourself. Return to your breath awareness and your mental freedom. On the subway there are constant noises, movements and a cacophony of interruptions. I breathe, I let my mind go in and out of focus and I find that when I arrive at my destination I have a greater capacity for life, for work, for openness to the world around me.
- When you can, DO find an exercise class, or yoga teacher, or attend church and sing and worship, or go for a walk in a park. Busy lives are enriched and made more efficacious when there are breaks and pauses.
Be well. Breathe. Be PRESENT. Do good work. Repeat.
Can I work with you to help you be cancer-free? Contact me and let’s see what is going on in your life.






